GOALS FOR DIRECTION IN LIFE

Last supper - exquisite toast with Nutella. Last supper before tightening up the diet once again, back to meticulous planning and striving toward a chosen goal. This time, a 5K race. You can't achieve success if you're not moving toward something. Think about your ultimate long-term goal, and then break it down into less overwhelming mini-goals. Then find some incentives to help you stay the course. What kinds of goals am I talking about? The ambitious and attainable ones, of course.

First: Think long and hard about what you want. Make sure your goals are actually things YOU want to achieve, not what society dictates or what your family or friends want for you. Ultimately your life is yours and you must live it for yourself. I know you might be thinking that's selfish, but it's not. After all, who else is going to live your life if you're not? Sometimes being a little selfish is a good thing, especially if it enables you to take care of yourself.

Second: Remember, goals are not inflexible roadblocks meant to make you feel badly about yourself. If you don't accomplish a goal exactly on schedule, so what? You can't predict what life is going to throw your way — but you CAN choose the way you react to situations that come up. That is where your power lies. If you fall off the wagon, just get back on — no ifs, ands, or buts about it.

Third: We all have to be realistic when we set our goals. I'm barely 5 feet 5 inches (167cm) and I have a stocky build. I am never going to be a petite little waif, no matter how hard I work. I also want to make a difference in the world, but something tells me I probably don't stand a good chance becoming the next Angelina Jolie or Madonna. Instead, I set goals that are realistic and productive for myself only. I am 5 feet 5 and stocky, but I am going to be the most fit 5'5" chick I can be. I might not be Madonna, but I can motivate people how to be healthier and happier through fitness and be an inspiration to those near me if at all possible.

Does this make sense? The bottom line is that goals provide direction. They help bring a focus to our lives so that we can live our dreams — no matter how big or how small they may be.